• The piece below is a version of a post that appeared in my Facebook page on December 13, 2023. I remembered it recently as I was thinking of the interesting people I have encountered in the course of my travels.

    I am not normally a chatty person and I generally tend to leave people alone, especially when I find them beside me on a plane or at a nearby table in a crowded cafe. But this person was carrying delicate cargo that was screaming “Look at me!” and I could not help but gawk, so I started a conversation.

    We learn so many new things from meeting people. And from sharing such encounters with friends on social media we also discover another side to our friends too.

    I also realized that Covid may have warped my sense of time, like a card dealer riffling through a deck of cards, and shuffling them out of order. I kept searching for this post in pre-Covid years when travel was not yet restricted, insisting to myself it happened before the lockdown, only to realize this encounter took place much later. I mixed up my years.

    I struck up a conversation with a young man in the next table at a small coffee shop at the Ninoy Aquino International Airport (NAIA) in Manila while waiting for my flight to Davao City. What caught my attention was his army of miniatures from the series Warhammer, the soldiers he called chaos space mariners (I had to Google them later to make sure I heard right). They’re figures and a video game series from the 1980s, he said.

    He has been creating these miniatures the past year, buying the parts and the paint, and putting the figurines together and painting them, a (not cheap) hobby he said helps calm his mind. He was carrying them in a glass box, each with a magnet standing atop a metal plate so they don’t fall over each other.

    He is a college student, majoring in Psychology, with a minor in creative writing, and for his thesis, he is writing a book on Southern Philippine mythology. He is focusing on the psych aspect, he explained to me, about the role that myths play in everyday life (or something like that). He also showed me sketches of creatures he encountered in his research, which will also go into his book.

    As it turns out, he is a graduating student whose teachers I know. One of these teacher-friends of mine teaches a class he said he loved.

    Our conversation went from Warhammer to family and illness, the Philippine health insurance system and out-of-pocket expenses, biking, traffic and air pollution in Katipunan Avenue, where the university is located. And as it turned out again, we were taking the same flight. He was on his way home to spend the holidays with family; I was meeting up with other journalists for a work-related event.

    I learned so much from that brief encounter, about how profound and focused young people can be if given the opportunity and resources. Hopefully he gives back by helping develop a culture of wellness-awareness among Filipinos, especially those not as privileged as he.

    There’s a lesson to be learned from this young man, and that is to pursue your passion if you can, if you have the resources, stamina and determination to do. If you do it often enough and make it part of who you are, you’ll find this passion seeping into other parts of your life. You’ll find it serving like a shield or even a home, I would dare say. It is where you are most comfortable and at ease, a refuge from the overwhelming world, sometimes even a source of ideas and inspiration.

    I got the impression that he derived the inspiration for his thesis from his passion for Warhammer miniatures, which gave him a unique project that I can imagine stood out from those of his peers.

    In case you’re interested to know more about Warhammer, here’s the official website as well as a a blog that provides a brief summary of what it is all about.

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  • Social media can be a hellhole some days, especially when a raging controversy brings out the critic in each one of us. People feel like they have something to say, even if that something is nothing really and ends up only muddling the issue. We rage and rage, and in the process encourage others to do so, till the platform becomes nothing more than a boombox spewing banging sounds that don’t really make sense. 

    This was what came to mind when I heard how Cardinal Blase Cupich, Archbishop of Chicago, deals with the demands of his job. Cupich was close to Pope Francis and is also esteemed by Pope Leo, who appointed him to be a member of the Pontifical Commission for the Vatican State. 

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  • Nurse John and other funny Filipinos entertaining social media

    Screenshot of Nurse John’s Instagram content. He achieved a career milestone when Forbes Magazine included him in its list of Top 50 Creators.

    I turned my cellphone on the other day to the awesome news that Nurse John, a social media influencer I follow on Instagram, was named one of Forbes Magazine’s Top 50 Creators for 2026

    Nurse John, whose real name is John Dela Cruz, ranks Number 28. He is just a few notches below the children’s show host Ms. Rachel at Number 24. He outranked two other creators I follow, the Japanese-American lawyer-finance expert Erika Kullberg at Number 40, and Chinese-American Vivian Tu, another finance expert known as Your Rich BFF, at Number 45.

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  • (Or why I write about migration, the new home and the old, and everything in between)

    I am a journalist by education and profession. Recently, I acquired the status of immigrant to the United States, the latest in a lifetime of twists and turns.

    My life has been like a road trip, one that has taken me down beaten paths, face-to-face with dead ends, past new and unfamiliar roads, and humbled by about-faces. In fact, I started this blog with exactly that kind of a story: a road trip that was so familiar and at the same time exciting that an adventurous detour seemed like a given, only to find out it would lead nowhere. Finally, disappointed and defeated, we road-trippers were forced to make a U-turn, but not before we saw the possibilities that that detour could bring in the future.

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  • The carcass of what appears to be a sea lion at the Seaside State Beach. Photo by Luz Rimban.

    Three incidents caught my attention yesterday, June 3, all having to do with dead or dying sea creatures. 

    The first was a personal encounter. I was taking a stroll down the Seaside part of the Monterey Bay Recreation Trail, when I spotted what appeared to be the carcass of a sea animal. I know from reading about it that when this happens, people are not supposed to touch or even approach it but instead report the sighting to concerned agencies.  

    Various groups cater to stranded sea otters and sea lions which abound in the Monterey Bay area. I chose to send photos along with the location and time at which I found it to Moss Landing Marine Laboratories (MLML), which had a ready email address. MLML is an academic unit under the San Jose State University and is located at the nearby town of Moss Landing. I did not know exactly what this marine mammal was, but my guess was that it could be a sea lion l. I have yet to hear from the MLML. 

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  • Taal Volcano in Batangas, Philippines, viewed from the famed ridge in Tagaytay City. Photo by Luz Rimban.

    I thought it timely to explain to visitors, especially those here for the first time, what my blog is all about, and how or why I write what I write. 

    This blog is titled On The Road but was never meant to be a travel blog. I do not really travel a lot but when I do get the chance, I always make it a point to document my experiences visually and note whatever insights I may have gained from the people and places I encounter.

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  • The view of the Pacific Ocean and Monastery Beach from Villa Angelica in Carmel. Photo by Luz Rimban

    I was headed for the Carmelite Monastery on Highway 1 in Carmel when I entered what turned out to be the wrong gate. After driving up a short road, I found myself beholding one of Monterey County’s most stunning views. 

    I would later see the sign that said I was at the Villa Angelica, a retreat house run by the Sisters of Notre Dame de Namur. Like the Carmelite Monastery next door, Villa Angelica sits on a hillside overlooking the Pacific Ocean. Just a few steps outside the gate and across the street is the shore, christened Monastery Beach in honor of the Carmelites.

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  • If time is precious, then a bonsai is gold.

    Each one holds the years of care, skill, and concentration its owner poured into it to create a miniature landscape from the saplings of a normal tree. That would make a bonsai the ultimate luxury.

    That is what it seemed to me as I viewed the bonsai collection on display in Salinas last April.  Members of the Asian Community—Japanese, Chinese, Filipino—held their annual Asian Cultural Fair and opened their doors to visitors.

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  • Stockholm, Sweden in 2022. Photo by Luz Rimban.

    Six years ago, the COVID-19 virus choked the world and brought it to a standstill. Governments and the world’s health care systems were unprepared to handle a pandemic of such magnitude. Millions of lives were lost, millions more fell ill, businesses shut down, people lost their livelihoods. 

    I was spared in 2020, but the virus finally caught up with me two years later while I was in a faraway country, thousands of miles away from the caring presence of loved ones. 

    Thanks to my hosts, however, I was given the means to isolate myself for 10 days, enough time to fly back to Manila, cleared of the virus. The host organization anticipated the eventuality of one or more of its guests contracting Covid. They were prepared. That faraway country is Sweden, and I will always remember it and be grateful for the foresight, efficiency and thoughtfulness of our hosts.  

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  • Monterey State Beach, Monterey County

    There are places in our part of Monterey County in California that you can visit for free, which somehow offset the high cost of living in this popular tourist destination.

    The impetus for this post (and please pardon the pause in postings) is the recent three-week visit of family members from the Philippines, one of whom could not help but say, “Monterey is a dream!” 

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